Anon, you’re clearly grasping for straws here. You should stop saying such stupid fucking things before I smack the living shit out of you.
That would be shitty of me to say, right? I have a hard time thinking of any irl situation in which such violent speech would be appropriate. If you were a survivor of abuse, that sentence might’ve triggered you.
Point being, most triggering phrases of speech (“I’m gonna fucking rape you; I’ll kill you, you ; etc”) are NOT okay things to say in general, because they are rude, insensitive, and violent. Obviously, in the US, we’re legally allowed to say whatever we’d like, but that doesn’t give anyone the right to be an insensitive asshole.
For triggers that are less obvious (ex: gender dysphoria, misgendering pronouns), the person being triggered might say something or request the offender to not refer to them as x; of course, if the offender isn’t a sack of shit, they’ll do the polite thing and try to make the other person comfortable.
It’s called fucking manners. And yeah, there’s no way to stop all the shitty people in the world from being shitty, but don’t pin that on the people who are hurt because of it.